John,
My son is with the Kalitta team also. This is the fourth team that he has been with and he is 21. He worked with his Grandfather on Wilkerson's team since age 10, helped me when I was with Haddock, and worked for Scott Weis. In all those years, he worked hard, learned his jobs, and became a great young man. He has survived cancer, completed college and has now been given the opportunity to be a part of a thoroughly professional team. If you see oil on the ground, grease crew members, etc., it's probably due to blowing a very expensive engine that they are trying to clean up. If you hear cussing, it is probably due to burning themselves on hot metal, or getting sprayed with brake cleaner in their faces. I can assure you that every crewmember on every team is well aware that there are kids watching them. They do their best to perform their duties with class and to show the utmost respect to the fans. All that they ask for is a little respect back. The Kalitta team has long been known for being one of the top teams in NHRA. This was earned, not given just because Conrad has been around for a long time. I don't know the exact time frame that you are referring to, but it is possible that my brother Terry was Scott's crew chief at the time you spoke about. I can assure you that he also expects professionalism of his crew members at all times. I'm hope that next time you see them in the pits, you will take the time to observe them carefully. I think you will see what I mean. By the way, if you happen to have any small kids with you after the races, almost any team will try to have a small souvenir to give away to them for free.
I know that we all have favorite teams, in fact I have many. I hope that my teams do well as everyone does. I don't degrade other teams or their crew members. One "bad" experience should not be used for your final judgement. I'm sorry I've rambled on.
Ken