So here's a question for everyone who wants to stop the dives: what's a "team"?
When they go from one car to two, people think it's great: they share data, help each other when the one's turnaround is tight, share parts, etc. Teamwork at its best. Would they lay down for the other when the race means nothing to one guy and everything to the other? Hard to expect them to not dive, especially with sponsorship at stake.
When John builds a tight team with the big team rah-rah meetings, the rallying together after the tragedies, the struggling to get the team working earlier this year, a lot of people are pulling for them. Teamwork at its best. You say "good for John". But when he actually behaves like a team, everyone's up in arms.
And what's an alliance? Wilk and Tasca have one of those. Is that a team? They share data, parts, bodies, crew guys when the going gets tough. If they were in the same position as Force and Hight, with Ford looking over Bob's shoulder? Hmmm... I'm not so sure it would be any different, although a number of you indignant folks would say "no way".
Do you stop people from sharing data? Yes, you say? But sharing parts when the other guy's down is one of the things we love about the sport. Take Steve Johnson in Brainerd. Everyone was all aglow when that happened. And when someone has a massive fire and everyone on the planet comes and helps them make the next round, people sing "Hallelujah".
So where do you draw the line? How could you ever police it? If John had just had his .209 light (and not gone for the wall), we'd still be here, right? What light would've been good enough? Seems the only thing that would satisfy anyone would be him actually winning. Even if he did try his hardest and tune it with the best Coil/Fedderly could offer, if he lost "the fix was in".
Don't see how you can stop the dive. Not sure it's that important that you try.
For the guy saying "what do I say to my kid", you say: "It was really important to John's team to get Robert into the playoffs. The only way to do that was for John to let Robert win. Now he has all his cars in the playoffs and John's team has an even better chance of being a champion."