I can't imagine what John Medlen is going through. However, I was told by someone that given the circumstances, Eric left doing what he loved, and the last person to look in his eyes would be his dad, as it is he who brings him up to the line and sends him off.
The last moment in his life was one where it was just Father and Son,,, as sad as it can be, the other side to it is how cool and grateful that it was a moment for just those two.
If in the next 6 seconds, without you knowing it, you are to leave this mortal life,,, who would you want to be as the last one you can see?