Jenn
Nitro Member
I played basketball and baseball all the way through high school ... but my Mom's rule was all A's and B's or I don't play. When I turned 16 and wanted to drive I had to get a job to pay for my own insurance. So I had school, a job, a car, basketball and baseball and if I wanted all of that, it HAD to be all A's and B's. And I did it.
I guess what I am trying to say is, no matter what rules you set, no matter how hard you push, it ultimately boils down to what your kid wants. If he wants to put in the effort, he will. If he doesn't, he won't. You just need to be strong and consistent in your application of the rules and punishments you set forth. Kids are clever ... they can smell weakness and exploit it.
Oh yeah ... did I mention I don't have any kids?
That was my parents rule as well, if you want to travel with the race team and race, I had to have a 3.5 GPA or better. My high GPA also provided ammunition for me when they tried to suspend me for high absenses.
My dad also has that rule for his high school age employees, if their grades are below a 2.5, they can't work for him.