I've had the chance to meet her a few times and she has always been gracious. Most people who are driven to win, also have that drive that sometimes can be taken for arrogance. I've been going to the races since the late sixties and have seen a few drivers go off on someone, didn't change my perception of them at all. Whether your a hater or a fan of Shirley's, you can't take away from her what she has accomplished and done for the sport of drag racing. This sport could use a few more drivers willing to say what they think, too much peace and love between them. Where is Whit Bazemore when you need him? Just my two cents worth.