You really do have to love it. All the time away wears on you, Missing important dates, or just fun ones. Even if you plan it all out months in advance, all it takes is a rainout and you miss a concert, or a show or a birthday.
This happens to me at least twice a year
Buddy; "Hey Alan, we're all going to the lake this weekend, biggest party of the year, want to go?"
Me; "I'm going to Topeka (or wherever) so I can't make it.
Buddy; "That job of yours sucks.....Can I borrow your boat?"
Me; "NO!"
Think about what you did Super Bowl Sunday, and then read what Troy and the guys did. As I understand it they had an invite to a party that afternoon, but ended up staying at the track.
I was talking to a Crew Chief in Phoenix that told me he had hired a guy that for two years had been trying to get on a team. Sent Resume's followed up with calls, letters and visits. Had wanted to do this forever. He was hired Jan 3rd, and quit at Phoenix, He just couldn't take it.
I am very fortunate, I love my job and I fly in, (I do still get behind the wheel now and then) but all the hotel nights, and fast food, do take a toll. I wouldn't trade jobs for anything, I have been places, met people, and seen things that I never would have gotten to do otherwise. I have even been a crew member on a Pro Stock car, and once on a Top Fuel car. But I have seen a number of people over the years, try the life on the road and just couldn't do it.
Alan