Why do some of you think somebody has to be "Wrong" here?
It varies from business to business, but "If you ever want to make a change, give me a call" is a daily occurrence. It was when I was in the construction business and it is in the racing business.
I would be surprised if Tony Smith has never been told that if he wanted to race full time there was a team that had a place for him. Would it be wrong for a full time team to tell him that? I don't think so.
If I work for ABC company and XYZ offers me a job. Nobody did anything wrong.
If I decided that the XYZ offer is good and accept it. Nobody did anything wrong.
I could tell ABC that XYZ made an offer and give them a chance to match it, but it's not required.
If I tell ABC: "I'm giving notice, I have accepted another positi0n." Nobody did anything wrong.
If ABC says: "We are teminating this relationship now." Nobody did anything wrong.
Did they?
I have no idea how this all went down, but I don't automatically think someone is wrong. Sometimes, business is just business.
Alan