I've had four different areas, all on my right side. Ear arm ankle and calf. 1st was my ear 13 yrs ago. The others one every year.
(The scars on his face do not trouble him. He said they represent a fight, not a flaw.)
That part made me laugh, my youngest grandsons 3-5 both said Scars make you tuff.
So upon my return from OPEN heart surgery
I showed them my chest. They both stepped back saying wow with a little bit of horror look.
I always think back of that time for a laugh.