Yeah, my heart really goes out whenever I see an accident with one or more fatalities, knowing the news that their loved ones are getting.
One of my best friends, his wife was a nurse. On the way back from giving kids shots at a small school, the doctor had been going a little faster in his Porsche than he realized. He saw a county cop go the other way, looked down at his speedo, then saw the cop turn around in his mirror. He takes off, thinking he'll easily lose him. He overdid a curve, the car spun around, and put her door into an oak tree. Took her a week to die.
If anyone was seperated from the comedian Ray Stevens at birth, it was my friend, Pat. He was always calling into a Knoxville radio station with wacky stuff, so a well known DJ did a little bit for him. Talked about how they got up that morning, doing all the usual bathroom stuff, having no idea that this was the last time they were ever going to be able to talk to each other again. I'm sure it caused a lot of people to think about how you never know and try to appreciate and get in a few extra hugs and kisses.